An I Matter Quick Relationship Health

You may have been hunting for an understanding of what the issue is for a long time...

Imagine being able to get just a bit clearer... about what is happening right now

... you may suspect that there is something to do with relationship health going on... but somehow you can't get the advice you need  ...

Imagine that this step of getting clearer - even if it was rather uncomfortable could help you get clear about the next priority steps... and about what to DO

That is what a good diagnosis or a good assessment can offer.

Our I Matter Relationship Health Quick Self Assessment can help you take one important step towards improving  health and wellbeing for the whole family.   When your understanding increases so you will be better placed to take the actions that can build your own confidence and strengthen well-being for your child and for yourself

The first priority is to understand what is happening. Once you have better understanding then you will be able to work out what to do next.

Very surprisingly, in the area of adult and child well-being, relationship health and the skills involved in relationships are a key central issue that too often gets overlooked in the context of professional consultations about children's mental health and well-being.

Instead a great deal of time and energy and resources gets focussed on trying to establish whether there are problems or disorders in the individual child or adult.

The problem with the hunt for disorders or problems in the individual child is that in overlooking some very important details in the relationship itself. this hunt can often takes us away from where we want and need to go.

One key important point, a child or adult can have a lot of challenges and it is still possible to have a healthy relationship.   These are two distinct issues.
However Relationship Health requires more advanced skills when there are additional challenges.

Would you like to find out quickly if
relationships are healthy?
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Not licenced for professional use.


Knowing clearly what the issue is,
is the first step to taking action 
to make a difference

In I Matter Professional Practice we use a much more complex version of the Quick Self Assessment Tool (known as the I Matter Q) to explore the health of relationships. We use this detailed assessment to guide the advice and recommendations so that the right actions can be taken to restore health and confidence.


Your Role and Your Understanding
and Skills are Key for Your
Child's Healthy Development.


The Five Steps To Success with Anxious or Challenging Children!  

Dr. Cathy Betoin - Relationship Health Matters

Dr Cathy Betoin
Clinical Psychologist, Teacher, Parent

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